Porn kills Intimacy

So many people I know in ministry are addicted to porn, Its not OK…Its adultery and it will disqualify you from ministry.Porn addiction is a perversion of intimacy, Porn addiction is false intimacy. We are created with desires for intimacy and for pleasure. The way to fight porn addiction is to feed faith with the precious and magnificent promise that the pure in heart will see, face to face, the all-satisfying God of glory,Yet the sexual sinner, finding no pleasure in real intimacy with God, ultimately finds no pleasure in false intimacy. Real intimacy has both pain and pleasure; false intimacy offers the illusion of no pain, but in the end there is no real pleasure! A part of exchanging the “truth about God for a lie” (Romans 1:25) is that you end up with pleasure now, pain forever!
Getting caught in sexual sin doesn’t change the heart.After secret sexual sin is exposed we can make the mistake of focusing on the actions and attempt to eliminate behavior which is called sin management. We may be feeding a false conviction rather than aiding true conviction.

False conviction is a reaction caused by self-disgust, a sorrow over the consequences of sin. True conviction is an abiding sorrow over the offence against God, and while it’s not the natural response, it does demonstrate that God has begun a good work that he will complete. True conviction is followed by true repentance. False conviction is followed by counterfeit repentance that only sees the consequences of sexual sin and the pain it caused others. Often this leads to a temporary change in behavior without a mind or heart change. True repentance results in a change of mind which produces a change heart which cause a change of direction, change of direction without the mind/heart change is sin management. Most people who manage their sin stay stuck in sin and can never get over it. It takes true repentance to be delivered from sexual sin.
The person in porn addiction must relearn what intimacy is, seek true intimacy with God until the very though of looking at porn will make them sick to their stomach. We as Christian Father,Brothers and Sons must have the spiritual kahunas to say “It’s not ok for you to be looking at porn and still be in ministry” We must be able to talk with them in a loving fatherly/brotherly way to help them get true deliverance through true repentance. #porn #pornkillslove#ministry #jesussaves

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